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Re: Sara and Elnendil versus Mr. Silent
No offence, but to me it seems like you're making this a little too easy for yourself. Most of your posts sound as though you're denouncing that person of not talking to you while feeling personally offended by the situation.
Something is wrong. I'm not saying he's a dickhole.
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I know how irritating/hurtful it can be to be on the receiving end of such a treatment, but that's no reason to act towards him with such disrespect. That person is not obliged to talk to you - you have no right to be this demanding, acting like it was your right to insist on them speaking to you.
I'm unsure if you grasp the situation. They are completely able to reply to anything. Sara is more of a friend to this person than he is to me, and yet he is ignoring her, but talking to me. Is this directed to Sara, and if so, why? That means there might be a problem occuring that he's keeping to himself, when it doesn't have to be that way.
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I don't know what your relationship to that person is, if he's a friend of yours or just a loose acquaintance you happen to know from that RP group, but if it's the former you should at least have some more trust in him, that he's got good reasons for acting like that. And even if the latter is the case, you should still try consider his side and think about what might make him want to avoid you instead of being all full of yourself and acting like he's the bad guy.
This person is a pretty good guy. Suddenly ignoring us isn't exactly a good thing. It reminds me of a friend Sara and I used to have that I met, and we got along really well. Suddenly, she dissapeared, and refused to speak with us. No reason. We did jack squat. I'd rather not let that happen again. It may not be that serious, but it is definitely odd, odd enough to consider that it isn't for a "good" or positive or amazingly spectacular reason. We've had him and some others talking to someone else and we say hi, so their "message" goes to us, so we know they're talking. They delete it and never speak to us. Yeah, great reason.
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I admit that it's wrong of him to not at least explain it to you, but then it should be you being considerate and actually trying to resolve the conflict. And with the intent to make it better for both sides involved, not just to claim what you think you deserve.
I think we've been considerate enough, seeing as we haven't tried to corner him and force him to talk. We are merely scouting, and asking friends if something is amiss. No real luck.
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Although if you don't even like each other and the person is just responsible for the organisation of your RPs and actually is obliged to talk to everyone it concerns, never mind this post.
He is a friend.
This post has been edited by Elnendil: Jan 5 2010, 12:46 AM