Is it better to tell people your problems or just act normally?
Telling: - you don't want to be whiny, pathetic - you keep thinking about it, and wallow in self-pity. - do you want people to worry? - eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeemooooooooooooooooooooooo - not everyone needs to know. if you're having problems, how can you judge who to tell?
Not telling: - maybe sometimes it's okay for people to worry about you. maybe sometimes you shouldn't deal with it alone. - if the problem becomes worse, and/or someone who cares finds out later or from another, it might be more upsetting. - some people do care, and they want to know.
Discuss.
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